Dave

Collaboration at its best.

On Tuesday of this week Tim Ford ’83 came to campus to speak with a group of five of our psychology majors (all seniors) who are working with Carolyn Whitney and me on independent research into the organizational behaviors and the psychological implications for four different groups within the work environments of today’s corporate world.  These four groups are the traditionalists, baby boomers, Generation X, Generation Y.  Four students are researching each of these four groups and the fifth student is looking at the gender implications of all of this.  It has been a fascinating experiment with these students who have already submitted two papers to us and who will complete a major collaborative paper before the end of the semester.  We may even present their findings at a “brown bag” luncheon on campus. Jim Wall'74 also came and spoke with the group during the Career Symposium which was held a couple of weeks ago.  I had contacted Jim and he provided the students with several excellent articles on how the corporate world is dealing with the various personalities of these four groups and what the implications are for integration of the various personalities of each group into the corporation.  He provided us with some in-house research that Deloitte has been doing and he spent over an hour and a half with us on the Thursday night prior to his keynote address to the Symposium.  On Saturday morning of that weekend I was on campus for the Admission’s Office Academic Preview and ran into Ryan Devane, one of our students – he was in a workshop that Tim Ford was presenting and as they talked, Tim commented that he had all four of these groups in his work site locally AND Tim offered to have our students come to that workplace (Hackett, Valine, McDonald ) to interview these folks (he has a 70+ year old partner in the firm who doesn’t even have a computer in his office and he has a number of 20-somethings who work for him).  Tim came in Tuesday and spent over an hour with us and has offered to be a resource for our students as they progress in their individual and collective research.  Each student is working on his/her own research area and sharing it with the others in the group. There will be a final “product” which will combine the efforts of all five of them.

 

This is an excellent example of the positive effects of ALUMNI, FACULTY, STUDENTS, CAREER SERVICES collaboration.  The Symposium brought our alums back to campus – they listened to Jim Wall and connected with our current students and are following up with some of those contacts such at Tim Ford.  CAREER SERVICES staff are connected to the students and the alumni.  This is not only a great example of collaboration at its best, but it also is an example of what Carolyn and I have been able to craft with five of our senior psychology majors who had a specific interest and how that is all coming together in a great educational experience.

 

I have been "subbing" for Molly Millwood's Practicum class for the past few weeks as she just gave birth to their second child this week.  Ari and Molly are both members of our psychology department faculty and very popular with the students who have been quite excited as we have all awaited the arrival of Quinn Alexander Kirshenbaum.  It has been great to get to know another class and to see how their internship sites are going as they, like my 16 Practicum students are having a very challenging and very educational experience out in the local community providing services in agencies across the county.  It is very reinforcing when we get to see how our students are able to take classroom learning and apply it in real-life situations.  I am very proud of our students.

 

Please take care, be well and please keep the members of our military and their families in your thoughts and prayers.  One of my students saw some of our Vermont National Guard soldiers and their families as the soldiers were preparing to deploy and she too, much like I experienced last week, was struck with the reality of this WAR.  I spoke with Prof. Bill Grover the other morning as we both walked to our offices.  He has maintained a wall covered with pictures of all those killed in the Iraq War and he asked me if I felt that he should begin a wall for those soldiers who have been killed in Afghanistan - I told him YES and when I mentioned this to my classes, they agreed.  It is a sad reality that too many of us can easily forget that there are WARS going on and that we all need to remember not only those who HAVE served, but those who ARE serving and their families.

 

Dave

 

 

November 07, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

More reasons to love Vermont

'It is Friday afternoon and I just got home from kayaking out on IndianBrook Reservoir in Essex Junction.  It was very peaceful when I first started but then the wind picked up quite quickly and the exercise part of exercise/solitude which I so enjoy with kayaking soon became more exercise and less solitude.  It WAS a great time and the whitecaps were unusual for IndianBrook.  As I left there heading home I remembered that I needed to go to the Alpine Shop and pick up my skis - I took them there last Friday for a tune-up.  So here I was, at the Alpine Shop with my kayak on the roof of my car going in to pick up my skis.  I talked with Pat Sheld '06 and Andy Driscoll '09 both of whom work there and who always take good care of me and we had a good laugh about how much we all love Vermont so much because of the cross-seasonal activities we all get to engage in.  It was 38 degrees out last Friday when I went kayaking and took my skis in for the tune-up and today it is 62 degrees outside - I will also call for an appointment this afternoon to get my snow tires put on because this IS Vermont and things can change quickly. :)

Classes are going very well and we have now finished pre-registration and our seniors registered this week for their second and final semester classes.  I enjoy academic advising as it gives me a great opportunity to help students match their classes with their future career plans.  I have 20 advisees and they are required to see their adviser before they can register for classes but our jobs are made so much easier these days because the students take responsibility for their course selection through using KnightVision which provides them with access 24/7 to their academic program and they get to not only see where they are as they progress towards commencement, but it also allows them to "try out" other possibilities in their curriculum choices.  It is especially rewarding to talk with my psychology majors as we get to make plans for their courses AND graduate school.  I will be in the office for several hours this weekend (it is supposed to rain so no kayaking) completing letters/forms which are recommendations for graduate school.  Jason Fuchs, Bryan Brunton and Joy-Anne Headley are all applying for graduate school and have requested a letter of recommendation from me and I have promised them that I will get all of them done this weekend.

Take care, be well and this morning as I was heading to the campus for a meeting I was surprised to see a large troop carrier and a bus heading towards the Burlington Airport the "back way" but then I remembered that more of our local Vermont National Guard members are heading south for additional training before being deployed to Afghanistan in December for a year.  The total number of Vermonters heading to Afghanistan is 1,500 - the largest deployment of our soldiers since World War II. The bus was carrying our soldiers as they head out - a truly sobering sight.  Please keep all of them and all of our military members and their families in your thoughts and prayers.   

Dave

October 30, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

Another busy weekend on campus

On Thursday afternoon Jim Wall, Global Managing Partner for Human Resources and Talent Management for Deloitte, Touche, Tohmatsu - one of the largest accounting firms in the world and a '74 alum of SMC came to campus for the Career Symposium sponsored by the Alumni Board of Directors, Institutional Advancement, the Business Department and the Office of Career Development.  This was a two day event which featured Jim's keynote address on Friday and several workshops, a dinner and an excellent chance for our students to learn HOW to network and to actually network with over 30 SMC alums who generously gave of their time to return to campus for this event.  Jim also agreed to meet on Thursday afternoon with five students who are working with Dr. Carolyn Whitney and me on researching the impact of the "New Millenials" (Generation Y) on the corporate and business world. It is fascinating to watch these five students as they research the "traditionalists" - "baby boomers" - "Generation X"  and now Generation Y or the New Millenials.  Our discussions and their initial research has been challenging, collaborative and exciting.  Jim shared HIS perspective on how the corporate world has adapted to the New Millenials - his visit was much appreciated by the students and by Carolyn and me.

His talk on Friday began with his showing the YouTube video DID YOU KNOW - you can find this on YouTube.com if you just search for Did You Know 4.0.  This was developed initially by a high school teacher several years ago and now it is updated every year.  The video shows in a very stark fashion how our world is not only changing VERY rapidly, but how the issue of GLOBALIZATION cannot be ignored.  Jim then provided his own insight into the current job market and stressed that there were two specific things that Saint Michael's College is preparing our students for - since so much information is now available at our fingertips due to the astronomical increase of technology, what is ESSENTIAL in today's world is for students to LEARN HOW TO LEARN - Jim explained why this is so important in today's global economy.  He then went on to explain that the second thing that SMC prepares our students for is LEARNING HOW TO INTERACT WITH OTHERS on a personal level.  Jim is always a well-prepared and well-received speaker and he continues to live up to his reputation.  He challenges people, engages them and provides timely and very helpful advice and his love for this institution is always very clear and present. 

On Saturday afternoon, after grading papers and constructing the first exam for my Theories of Counseling class, I presented information to two groups of prospective students and their families during our Office of Admission Fall Academic Preview Day.  My workshops focused on those students who are EXPLORATORY and who have not yet decided on a college major - this is NOT a bad thing. Since I had been so impressed by Jim Wall's presentation I decided to show the same YouTube video to my two workshops.  I had very packed sessions of students and their families and after showing the video and processing their reaction to it I then read part of an email I had just received from Chris Rovero who graduated from SMC four years ago and who just graduated from law school and also just passed the CT Bar Examination on his first try :0.  It is always nice to be able to share with PROSPECTIVE students what FORMER students have to say about their education both in and out of the classroom at SMC.  The students/families seemed to appreciate both the reality of the video and the challenges that presented AND the messages from both Jim Wall and Chris Rovero.  Several folks stopped to ask specific questions and to comment on this sometimes frustrating and draining process of college selection.  I know that this is NOT an easy task and I hope that I was able to provide some helpful insight and information to these folks.  Here is what Chris wrote to me:

. "On a more serious note, I have to give some well-deserved credit to the faculty/staff at St. Mike's for preparing me for the rigor of a legal education.  And I'm not talking merely about academics here, though my ability to think critically, write effectively, and communicate confidently are well-rooted in the liberal arts curriculum at SMC.  I'm speaking, too, of "bigger" values: empathy, charity, humility, self-awareness.  What I learned outside of the classroom at SMC was equally, if not more valuable than specific texts or theorems highlighted in the classroom.  What I guess I'm saying is: a) THANK YOU; and, b) I approve of the new catchphrase promoted on the college's website ("Learn What Matters") :)"

 

Back to grading papers - our foliage is still spectacular as we missed the snow that hit south of here - take care, be well and yes, as always, please keep all of the members of our military and their families in your thoughts and prayers.

Dave

 

October 18, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

SPECTACULAR foliage and another wedding.

Saturday morning I headed out very early for a drive to Portland, ME for a wedding - not just A wedding, but another amazing wedding.  Much like Mark and Alicia Cernosia's wedding a couple of weeks ago, I have known this couple for a very long time.  Jose Peralta and Alicia 'LEE' Smilowicz have been best friends for almost 17 years, ever since they met back in 1992 at Saint Mike's.  She is currently a doctor in the Portland area and Jose teaches Spanish and religion at Chevris High School in Portland.  They had asked me to do a reading at their wedding and I was happy to do Paul's Letter to the Corinthians which is a very popular reading at weddings.  A couple of days ago Jose called and asked me if he had remembered to also ask me to do the "toast" at the reception since I have known then as long as they have known each other - he hadn't........  Jose came to SMC after attending a summer camp over in New York that was run by the Reiss family.  Paul Reiss is the former President of Saint Michael's College and even though Paul and his wife Rosemary were NOT able to attend the wedding, three of their "kids" were and it was good to see each of them.  Jose, as Fr. Durkin, S.J. and Celebrant of the wedding said, has an "aura" about him - he just engulfs everyone around him with a sense of goodness and love.  Not bad words from a priest who has known Jose for a long time.  Jose was meant to be a teacher - he just has an amazing effect on everyone who comes to know him.  Lee was always going to be a doctor and as an independent, strong woman, nothing, was going to get in her way -there were many turns and challenges to their relationship but their friendship was never in question -  Paul's Letter to the Corinthians mentions "love is patient" in their case it sure was and perhaps that may be why it took 17 years of a wonderful friendship for the two of them to get married.  There were several SMC friends of both the bride and the groom who were also at the wedding and it was good to see Nicole Cremo (a psychology major who now is a 3rd grade teacher), Coleen Condon, Heidi St. Peter (Director of our MOVE program) and Dawn Bazin PLUS both Kurt and Kainne Hansbury.  All of these folks have maintained friendships with each other AND with Lee/Jose ever since they were all together at Saint Michael's College so many years ago.  Others at the reception were amazed at the friendships and the relationships these SMC alums have all maintained.  One woman commented to me how amazing it must be for me to be able to have followed these two young people for over 17 years as they have traveled on their own journeys which led them to their wedding - she is right - I am lucky and it truly is amazing. 

The drive TO Portland yesterday morning and the drive BACK early this morning also provided me with the opportunity to see the foliage as the sun was coming up.  I am a huge foliage fan and enjoy driving out into the mountains armed with my camera every fall - this year the color is some of the best I have ever seen in my 28 years around here.  SPECTACULAR is the word that came to me as the morning sun soaked the trees - with a frost predicted tonight they are forecasting that this will make the colors even more vibrant so tomorrow I will head back to the mountains with my camera and then probably go kayaking!

We have no classes Monday or Tuesday as this is the "long weekend" that our students (and many of us too) have been looking forward to.  The semester is rolling along and with both mid-term exams AND pre-registration right around the corner, everyone needed a break.  We also have two students diagnosed with the H1N1 which was inevitable - hopefully students will have a chance to get some sleep at home, some good home-cooked meals and a chance to re-energize as they get ready for the challenges of the rest of the semester.  Health Services has been wonderful about making sure that we are ALL educated about the flu and in providing the seasonal flu shots for our students.  I spoke with Mary Mason who is the Director of Health Services and she said that as many as 200 students a day were showing up at Health Services to get their shots.  I have spoken to each of my classes about the flu and all members of the faculty have been urged to discuss this with our classes and to make sure that the students know NOT to come to class IF they are sick - attendance policies can sometimes get in the way of students making wise decisions when they ARE sick.  As the H1N1vaccine becomes available, I am sure that they will make these available to our students too.  Classes continue to go very well and I am looking forward to grading their second set of papers over the next couple of days while they are away.

Take care, be well, and as always please keep all of our veterans and the current members of our military in your thoughts and prayers. I happened to run into one of our alums (Ted Brady) who works for Senator Patrick Leahy at my favorite bagel shop near my home in Williston.  I brought to his attention that the woman who works for Sen. Leahy and who is in charge of veterans' issues had been very, very helpful to a couple of veterans (including one of our alums who is now enrolled in graduate school here at SMC) - there has been a delay in the VA providing some veterans with "out of pocket" expenses as they have enrolled in college.  She was helpful in directing them to the appropriate place to get a "loan" from the VA to cover these expenses - Ted told me that he would make sure that she heard this compliment and that he would also let the Senator know.  Our veterans already have enough to deal with and don't need to worry about some of these issues and getting help from Senator Leahy's office was a very good thing. 

Dave

October 11, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

It doesn't get much better than this..........

This past week has been one filled with a lot of activity, excellent classes, re-connections with former students and a re-affirmation that this thing we call education IS worthwhile.  Logan Thurnauer just stopped by my office on this rainy Saturday morning to say hello.  He graduated this past May and is in a Master of Science program in Education with an emphasis on Higher Education at the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia.  This is a one year program which will lead to a Ph.D. program in Higher Education.  Logan was actively involved with our Residence Life Program here and he just finished telling me about this new program and how much he is enjoying it.  I asked him if he felt that Saint Michael's College had prepared him well for his graduate work and his response made me laugh.  He said "I was not expecting this Dave but I am ahead of many others in my program BECAUSE of my experiences and my education at SMC." - now THOSE are nice words to hear.  He said that he has a great deal of reading to do every week and the classes are challenging but he has done well so far and he attributes this to the Liberal Arts background that he obtained here.  Some of his peers are from much larger educational institutions and they seem amazed when he tells them of his close relationship with many of his former professors here.  This is foreign to many of them.  Another former student stopped by yesterday just to say hello - John lives in Montana and is living HIS dream of skiing as often as he can - he is back East for his sister's wedding next week and he took a train from Montana to Boston.  He had a chance to see several of his other professors during this brief visit but he simply HAD to return to campus just to re-connect.  Brendan Rynne called me from California last night as we have been playing "telephone tag" for a week now.  He and his wife and now TWO children are doing very well and he just wanted to re-connect and to fill me in on how they are all doing - connections - re-connections - this is one of the things I love about working here.

On Monday afternoon one of my former students came to my Practicum class to talk with us about her experiences as a therapist, a writer, a consultant and a wife/mother.  Kim Quinn-Smith graduated from Saint Michael's College in 1989 with a double major of biology and psychology.  She then went on to Boston College and received a Master's Degree in Counseling Psychology.  She and the love of her life Tom Smith ('89)were married and they now have five children.  She has been a therapist working with teens, families and youth as well as the chronically mentally ill.  She has written three books and is now a consultant presenting workshops around the Northeast on such topics as teens, young adults and gender.  I wanted Kim to speak to my class because I happen to have sixteen WOMEN in this class and I thought it would be important for my students to hear what it was like to be a wife, a mother, a therapist, a writer AND a consultant - sometimes all at the same time.  My students seem to have appreciated Kim's honesty and since her presentation skills are so open and engaging, it was a wonderful class.  Three of those students are also in my Theories class and so the next day, they couldn't wait to tell me that they had all called their Mom's and had talked about Kim's presentation and in fact, a couple of them are going to get one of Kim's books Striving for the Purple Heart: Mothers in the Universal Pursuit of Honor for their mothers. 

On Thursday (I have two classes back to back on Tuesday and Thursday) my Sports Psychology class finished up their presentation from Tuesday on the impact that advertising and marketing have with regards to sports and athletes/athletics.  We look at the psychological impact of all of these factors and I was impressed with the students' presentation AND their ability to think critically about an interesting topic.  We then had a "come to Jesus" moment as I confronted them on their writing skills or lack thereof.  Much like the rest of their generation which has become addicted to Facebook, Instant Message, Twitter and cell phone communication my students made several careless errors in their first papers.  I hold students accountable for their errors - I warn them the first day of class that they are either blessed or cursed to have a former English teacher as their psychology professor.  I show them typical errors and they all assure me that THEY won't make the same mistakes and, of course, I know that they will - I do suspect that they won't be making near as many in the future.  BUT, it was a good class.  My second class of the day is my Theories of Counseling class.  We study material from our textbook on Tuesdays and then on Thursdays we use the Developmental Lab (a large room divided into two sections separated by a one-way mirror) for the application of what they have learned in the text and classroom discussion on Tuesday.  I create counseling scenarios and have one student serve as the "counselee" and provide that student with the issues I want them to present to the student "counselor." I then select another student to serve as that counselor and the "games" begin.  With fifteen students on one side of the one-way mirror and the other two sitting and counseling on the other side, this laboratory is an incredible teaching tool.  It IS intimidating.  It IS stressful.  It IS education at work.  Several of my former students who are now in graduate school have emailed me about how grateful they are that we have this laboratory at SMC.  These students, now in programs of study all over the country, are most often the ONLY ones in their graduate programs who have had this experience as an undergraduate.  Thursday's class was exceptional as all of the student "counselors" were right on target - they were good listeners, showed the appropriate level of concern and understanding to the "counselee" and provided the right amount of empathy, encouragement and structure to assist the "counselee" to continue exploring the issues that I had created for the scenarios.  This is one of those classes where all of the sudden it is 4:10 and class is over - we were able to have four students practice their counseling skills and then as we process the experience all together they showed how well they have been able to apply not only what they are learning in this class, but also what they have learned in their other psychology classes - as I titled this blog - it doesn't get much better than this.

take care, be well and please keep all of our veterans and the current members of the military (and their families) in your thoughts and prayers. 

Dave

October 03, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

SA Day Away, Fr. Mike and a wedding to remember....

This afternoon 32 of our students - all members of the Student Association, participated in the annual SA Day Away by volunteering at a local "alternative school" in Burlington.  Rockpoint is an amazing school and our students put in a couple of hours working together to clean up in and around the facility. After that activity, they returned to campus for lunch and then a meeting in Cheray 101 which is the home of the Student Association on Tuesday nights.  There was a presentation on the structure of the SA and Robert's Rules and then Marilyn Cormier, Director of Corporate and Community Relations spoke with the students about effective communication.  Grace and I were introduced along with Marilyn as we serve as "advisors" and Pat, who was not able to join us was also introduced.  It should be a good year and today certainly set a good tone for the year.

On Friday afternoon some of us from SMC gathered along with other friends and the family of Mark Cernosia and Alicia Robinson for their wedding on the shores of Lake Champlain.  Held on the Sherburne Museum's Coach House lawn, it was one of those moments which will be long remembered.  Mark and Alicia met at SMC and Mark, the son of Art and Jennie Cernosia has been part of our FAMILY his whole life as Jennie served as Director of Student Activities and amazing role model for thirty years.  I am always intrigued that the "children" of members of our faculty and staff are raised in an incredible environment.  Sue Kuntz and I, along with Grace Kelly and Annie Brabazon plus Lou and Nancy DiMasi and the five DiMasi "kids" have all known each other for so many years that we ARE family.  Watching all these "kids" grow up and now marry brings amazing joy.  Mark and Alicia met at SMC and have been "dating" for 8 years - we have all followed their friendship, their relationship, their engagement and finally their marriage.  The DiMasi "kids" grew up alongside not only Mark Cernosia, but Peter as well.  Those of us "older" folks are best friends - colleagues, and in many cases, when necessary, "substitute" parents for all these kids.  This is one of the many, many joys of living here and having Saint Michael's College as our home.  Fr. Mike introduced the couple to all of us and when he spoke of "this woman" and "this man" it meant so much to all of us AND the bride/groom because it WAS Fr. Mike.  He serves his community as the Superior General of the Society of Saint Edmund.  He has also been a wonderful role model for all of the SMC "kids" who were there on Friday.  Fr. Mike is just one of those genuine, honest, dedicated, self-less priests who continue to make a difference in our world.  I have been to many weddings where Fr. Mike was the celebrant and I have been to some where he has just been "part" of the service - regardless of the circumstance, for those of us who are part of this "family", his presence just makes things right........  He is truly both a GOOD man and a HOLY man - we are lucky to have him as part of our lives.

The past two weeks have been very busy with the Athletic Hall of Fame a week ago (congratulations to all of the new inductees), students settling into the semester (I can't believe we have already completed one month of classes), papers assigned AND submitted, departmental meetings, Homecoming and First Year Family Weekend - busy but good times.  Fr. Mike's responsibilities as Superior General preclude his teaching anymore and while I suspect that he doesn't miss the grading duties, he does miss the teaching as he is an outstanding teacher.  He asked me at the reception on Friday how my classes were going - he always checks on this as we used to talk with each other about our classes and the challenges and the rewards of teaching - I was once again able to tell him that my classes are excellent - not a bad one so far -

At the wedding I ran into Dakin Marini - Dakin graduated a couple of years ago and was a member of our varsity hockey team - Fr. Mike had told me that one of my former students was at the reception and that she had told him that my class (Abnormal Psychology) had sparked her interest in psychology and that she is now a therapist in Maine.  Initially her name didn't ring a bell with me but then when I saw Dakin and spoke with him, it turns out that it was his wife Samantha who had been my former student - as Dakin and I were talking "Sam" came up and sure enough I remembered her immediately (I seldom forget a face but am not as good with names anymore) - I was very humbled when she told me what she had told Fr. Mike - she took my class and ended up majoring in Psychology, graduating from SMC, earning her MA from Texas A&M and she now IS a therapist.  They have two children and Dakin is a builder in Maine - they have remained friends with Mark and Alicia and joined so many of their other friends for this wedding to remember.

Take care, be well and as always, please keep the members of our military in your thoughts and prayers and that includes all of our veterans and their families.

Dave

September 27, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

PERSPECTIVE - how easy it is to NOT keep life in perspective!

On Wednesday afternoon Fr. Brian Cummings, SSE, Director of Campus Ministry informed the College community of the sad news that Patrick Devlin, son of Professor John Devlin and his wife Carol, had died of leukemia.  Patrick had just turned 16 a couple of weeks ago and because of the nature of this community, we all knew that John and his family had been going through what must be one of the most difficult things that any family can ever experience.  When Pat was diagnosed with leukemia and they all began his courageous fight he and his family were kept in all of our thoughts and prayers - over the past several months, we received updates, either from Fr. Brian or from John about how Pat was holding up through the various treatments he was undergoing.  Even though we knew that things wee not good, we were all shocked at the news - his funeral will be held in the Chapel of Saint Michael the Archangel tomorrow afternoon on campus.  While there are no words to express the sadness of an entire community, I hope that John and Carol and Pat's sister and the rest of their family are comforted in the knowledge that all of our thoughts and prayers are with them. 

This morning I stood on my deck and watched fighter jets take off from the Burlington Airport.  I knew from the paper that there was going to be a ceremony, closed to the public, at Camp Johnson, next to the College and that at 9:01 there would be a "flyover" by members of the Vermont Air National Guard.  As I thought back to 9/11/2001 and how the events of that day and the following days unfolded I was reminded about how the community that IS Saint Michael's College came together then to support, comfort and care for each other and our "extended" family.  The reality of just how short our lives can be is something that we often can forget - no matter how many times we are reminded through tragedy, that life IS short, we get so involved in our own lives that we sometimes forget to stop, to take a deep breath and to enjoy what we have HERE and NOW.  Perspective is something that we all need.  We all have "stuff" in our lives and so it is easy for us to lose perspective on how important the "moment" is and the importance of our friends and family - I asked my Practicum class the other day to define anxiety - these are all seniors who are or will be working in the community 8 - 10 hours a week in local service agencies and several of them had been in my Abnormal Psychology course - clinical definitions of anxiety include "feelings of fear and apprehension which are manifested cognitively (thoughts), somatically (physical reactions) and behaviorally" - I then asked them to share with the class some of the things that they are anxious about - they, of course came up with  "the future, relationships, this class, money," I then asked them to think about the things that the people with whom they will be working may be anxious about and they stopped for a few seconds and then said things such as "homelessness, rape, hunger, mental illness, personal safety, freedom" - as I attempted to get them to put THEIR anxieties into perspective I didn't minimize THEIR "issues" but tried to get them to realize that being able to put OUR issues into PERSPECTIVE with the rest of society IS important.

September 11th and Patrick Devlin's so untimely and tragically sad death at 16 remind ME once again to keep my life in PERSPECTIVE.  As a cancer survivor myself, I should know this and I usually do but like my students, it is sometimes way too easy to forget that I now have my health, I have family and friends who care deeply about me and for me, life is good.  The bigger picture is that every moment we do have with our family, friends and loved ones IS important - sure we plan for the future - and while we cannot change anything we have ever said or done sometimes we dwell in the past - when we either spend too much time "back there" or "out there" we do forget the HERE and NOW - we forget to tell those we love that in fact we DO love them - we sometimes forget to remind ourselves that is IS alright to LOVE ourselves too.......

I usually don't get this philosophical in my blog but even though I didn't know Patrick and only know John as a colleague this young man's death has hit me and so many others here on campus with an emotional impact that surprises us.  Please keep Patrick and his sister and his parents and extended family in your thoughts and prayers and, of course please remember all those lost on September 11th and their families.   And, as always, please do the same for all of the members of our military - current members and veterans.

take care

Dave

September 11, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

Classes begin - Swine flu advisories - Strategic Planning

Last Monday was the first day of classes and so by now I have met my three classes - they seem eager to engage, to explore and to let me challenge them as much as they will certainly challenge me.  On Thursday I had my Sports Psychology class meet me at the library where Kristen Hindes, one of the Reference Librarians presented information on how students can and MUST go beyond Google and Ask.com to do their research.  The quality of the research my students have done since Kristen began providing this resource has, as I told the students, "improved exponentially."  She does a great job of exposing the students to the many data banks which the College subscribes to.  I look forward to seeing what they will do with this new information.  Both Theories of Counseling and Practicum will be an opportunity for students to come to better understand the complicated issues related to a potential career in the field of counseling.  Both of these last two classes took the MBTI (Myers Briggs Type Inventory) which is a personality assessment and Chris Clary, Director of Career Development will be coming into class to interpret the results of this valuable instrument.  I have also arranged for my friend and former student Kim Quinn-Smith to come into Practicum to help my students understand the path that some take to enter this profession.  Kim married her college sweetheart, has five children, has written four books, been a therapist and is now a consultant so she brings a great wealth of experience to discuss.  She was a biology major at SMC and getting from "there" to where she is today is quite an interesting story. 

One of the things I did in each class this past week was to bring in a box of EmergenC and Airborne and a bottle of hand sanitizer.  The reality is that SMC, like all colleges and universities in this country WILL have cases of the H1N1 virus.  I spoke with Mary Mason, our Director of Health Services to inform her that I was going to be advising my students to stay away from class IF they are ill and that they should use hand sanitizers and wash their hands A LOT to decrease their chance of getting the Swine Flu.  The nightly news has been full of reports of the Swine Flu impacting colleges and universities across the country.  Saint Michael's College has had a plan in place for months and as with most other things at SMC, these plans have been shared with everyone - another great example of the transparency we enjoy here.  While I have about 98% attendance in all of my classes (not sure if they just like what they are learning OR if they are so unsure of what I will be doing in class they are afraid to miss) but I have assured them that I will make whatever accommodations need to be taken when/if they get ill with this flu.  I appreciate the leadership of the administration in making sure that the faculty/staff/students understand the seriousness of this pandemic.  I told my classes that there is "good news and bad news" - the good news being for me as this flu is NOT hitting my age group as hard - the bad news is that it IS hitting their age group.  I hope that they listen and take the appropriate precautions - I know we will be impacted but hope that by taking some simple steps we can lessen the impact on the students AND the College community.

The College is undergoing an interesting dialogue as a new Strategic Plan is being developed which will direct the College for the next five years and beyond.  Under the leadership of Vice President for Academic Affairs Karen Talentino and Vice President for Human Resources Mike New, there have been several committees made up of faculty/staff and students discussing all aspects of the College.  It is an interesting challenge to have these discussions in light of the country's current economic crisis - hopefully this dialogue and these discussions will lead to a common Strategic Plan which will be endorsed by the entire community - a daunting task for all involved.

Our weather has been amazing this past week and the predictions are that we will continue to have this wonderful weather for at least five or six more days - a true gift at this time of year.  Between biking and kayaking I have been able to take full advantage of all of this.  It IS wonderful to see students back on campus and with this weather they have been out on the "green" playing Frisbee, tossing footballs and just hanging out with new and old friends.  Fall on this campus is a wonderful time.

Please take care, thank you to those of you who have been contacting me directly after reading my blog and, as always, please keep all of the members of our military, both veterans and active members and their families in your thoughts and prayers.  They deserve at least that.

Dave

September 06, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (2) | TrackBack (0)

And tomorrow brings another new academic year to Saint Michael's College.

Last Tuesday evening Grace Kelly and I accompanied our Orientation Leaders on the Sunset Cruise out on Lake Champlain.  This has become a yearly tradition as a way to thank these young men and women for giving of THEIR time to help our new students transition to SMC.  As the new year begins tomorrow, our new students will be better prepared for this time because of these fine Orientation Leaders.  The Cruise was a great time and I posted my pictures on Facebook and within a very short period of time all of them had either "friended" me or tagged themselves and each other so that they could view the pictures.  On Wednesday afternoon after Pat Gallivan talked with them about how they were going to help him for the event we all know as FUN FOR ALL the President of the College, Jack Neuhauser spoke with the Orientation Leaders and he thanked them for giving up their last week of summer vacation to prepare for our new students.  I tried to convince Jack to join us for the Relaxation Exercise which I do every year but he had other meetings to get to and I suspect he was afraid that if he started the Relaxation Exercise he would simply fall asleep - the schedule of a College President today is not an easy one and I know that Jack's schedule is always, always full.  The students did appreciate that he took the time to personally thank them.  After the Relaxation Exercise the OLeaders continued their planning for the Thursday arrival of over 500 new students - I on the other hand, had the chance to travel to MA to visit my sister and her family and to join them at Tanglewood for the Friday night James Taylor concert - JT had Sheryl Crowe and Yo-Yo Ma join him on stage for several numbers and the driving rain didn't take away from an amazing performance.  This was the first Opening I have missed in 27 years at SMC and not surprising, everyone survived without me.  :)

I have heard that the Opening Convocation on Thursday night was superb and have heard that both Dr. Sue Kuntz's talk and David Hiltz's talk were exceptional - not a surprise.  This morning I spent a couple of hours over in Ross Sport Center as our new students participated in one of the final events of Orientation.  This morning's session was all about CONNECTIONS and included a presentation on alcohol and substance use/abuse by a "juggler" who not only entertains but whose personal life story provides a very important message for all of our students.  Vice President for Student Affairs Mike Samara, Megan Ohler (Director of New Student Programming), Grace Kelly (Director of Student Activities) also spoke to the new students with timely "words of wisdom."  The most powerful part of this morning's session (well, actually there are two but more on that in a few minutes) is when OUR Orientation Leaders share something personal about themselves - Grace sets the tone for this by explaining that all of us have "stuff" in our lives but when we first meet others, they would never know this about us.  The OLeaders then stand up there and share something about themselves of a very personal nature and end that sharing with "you are not alone." Their sharing can be "I still miss my parents" to "I have a brother in Iraq."  It is an extremely powerful "gift" that these upper class men and women give to our new students - the session ends with the sharing of a huge ball of yarn - in the colors of purple and gold - Katherine Hackett's Mom knit this together this summer for us - the students make an enormous circle all around the circumference of the Ross Gym and then they each take hold of the yarn and the OLeaders cut every person a section of the "ball."  Grace explains that this welcomes them into our community and explains that IF they EVER need anything that all they have to do is to find one of us who also have this purple/gold yarn and tell us that they need us and we promise that we will be there to help - I am amazed at how many students keep that section of the "ball" all throughout their four years at SMC - a great idea that works.  I then take more pictures outside (we barely completed this before the rain came - AGAIN) of all of the OLeaders and then just the seniors, then the juniors, then the sophomores, etc. until I took over 75 pictures of any groupings that THEY wanted.  I again post these on Facebook and almost as soon as I did that I heard from several alums who commented on THEIR Orientation - one of them remembered going through all of this in 1988......  Again, the power of the social network that is Facebook astounds me.  By now I have heard from most of the OLeaders as they either tag themselves or others from the pictures - I love that I can give back something to this group which has given so much - they have been training for this Opening since last February - what a wonderful group of people. 

Classes begin tomorrow and I know that I will not have a restful sleep tonight in spite of going kayaking this afternoon.  I mentioned last year that I still, after all these years get nervous before the first day of classes - there is an excitement and an uncertainty about meeting my classes for the first time even though tomorrow's class is all seniors and I know many of them.  IF I ever stop being nervous before the first day of classes I will most likely stop teaching.

I know that I always end my blogs by asking everyone to please keep all of our soldiers and their families and all of our veterans in your thoughts and prayers - this past week 22 year old Joey Fortin from St. Johnsbury, Vermont was killed in Iraq - he has a cousin who attends Saint Michael's and all of the media coverage of this young man tell a story of a wonderful human being who is clearly gone from us much, much too early - he leaves a young wife and a family whose lives will never be the same - please keep them in your thoughts and prayers too......

take care

Dave


August 30, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

A mother's advice for incoming students AND a recent alums lament.....

As the opening of our new school year creeps ever forward I wanted to share with you the following which I received from the mother of one of our NOW sophomores:
 
"Hi Dave,
YES... I am still an avid reader of your blogs and I must add I enjoy them now more than ever. As I look back my heart goes out to all the Freshman parents who are probably just a little more than nervous about their college bound students who will soon be off on their own. I wish there was a way to hold up a giant sign that says RELAX... they will be just fine!!!! but of course, its all about the process. I learned so much about myself as (name withheld to protect the privacy of her daughter)  gently but very successfully forged ahead into college and early adulthood."
 
I often wonder if anyone is "out there" reading these blogs and then I hear from this Mom who has contacted me a couple of times since before her daughter arrived on our doorstep a little over a year ago and who now stays in touch regularly.  It makes it all worthwhile......  Her advice is excellent - RELAX and remember that WE do know what we are doing here at Saint Michael's College.  Please also trust in your own journey in this process - you MUST have done a good job or your son/daughter wouldn't be heading off to college in the first place - now is the time to trust YOUR judgment and to trust in Saint Michael's College - there will be so many emotions over the next week or so - please let those emotions play themselves out - as this Mom says:  "its all about the process."
 
At the same time that we are thinking about new and returning students, I heard the other evening from one of our recent graduates.  He was lamenting that even though I had warned him and his friends that this time of the year will be particularly difficult for recent alumni he has been having a difficult time.  His sister is heading off to college (SMC) and when she mentioned that she "had to go get stuff for school" his immediate response was "yeah, WE do" and then it hit him that HE isn't returning to SMC next week.  I explained to him again that for the first time since he was probably four or five years old HIS summer isn't going to end with him returning to school.  This reality is often hard for recent graduates to understand, even when they are warned in advance.  Those emotions still run high.  It didn't matter whether or not you had a good summer or a horrible summer, your summer ended and you went BACK to school - this was something you could always rely on.  Now that has changed and while I suspect that he and his friends and his fellow graduates WILL survive, it is difficult and emotional for them right now - the subtlety of the impact of all of the "back to school" sale signs in store windows and on the television comes into play as this new reality hits home. 
 
I met this week with four of our varsity athletic teams and will meet with another group this coming week - it is SO good to have students back on campus.  I was on campus this morning and it was so quiet - beautiful with all the grounds neatly trimmed and the flowers still blooming (thanks to our Physical Plant and all their hard work) BUT too quiet - it IS time for the students to return.  This coming Thursday is when the new students and their parent(s) arrive and that evening is the Convocation.  I will be missing this one and this is the first time in 27 years that I won't be on campus for all of the opening activities BUT my sister and her family have invited me to go to the James Taylor concert at Tanglewood the next evening and I am quite confident that the opening will be quite successful without my presence on campus.  I will be enjoying the company of family AND the music of one of my favorite performers. 
 
Until next week - take good care - be good to yourselves during this transition time and as always please keep all of the members of our military and all of our veterans in your thoughts and prayers.
 
Dave

August 23, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

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